Thanks DeeDee for the forum link, I will check it out.
I emailed DS's teacher to ask for an update on his testing/when the ARD meeting would be.. and we've got a date (5/17) and the diagnostician will be emailing me her report, along with the test results on Monday, so that I can forward them to the neuropsych. (I am so happy they volunteered up the test _results_!)
ETA: the diagnostician said DS did "a great job for [her] and, and is an extremely bright young man."
I am glad to hear to complied during testing... he's liked it so far, but this was with someone he'd never met before, so - yay!