My DS has had similar experiences in school. I will go ahead and channel Grinity and suggest the Transforming the Difficult Child workbook.
Well Done Deonne! I agree and would add that sometimes HG kids are very emotionally needy, and it's hard to get one's fill emotionally through good behavior, so the door is open to being desperate enough to go after human attention through bad behavior. Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook is a great guide to how to give enough delicious attention and connection to a child's positive behavior that they can continue it past 3 days.
I'd also encourage you not to 'awfulize' about what if you get kicked out of school. Better to survey the options - homeschooling, public school, different school than be hostage to a poor fit school.
Smiles,
Griniy
