Those peerfectionistic melt downs are no fun.....sounds like enough of the signs are in place that you need to become that parent. Sign up for ACT or SAT when she turns 12. Talk to the teacher about how it isn't really working and get a plan that you can monitor or move up the command chain.

Be gratefuk for how well things have gone so far and breath into the idea that now is a new chapter. It is time.

((Hugs))
Grinity

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