Wow, thanks for all of the information! He does have an ADHD dx, as well as the mention of ODD and something else from the psych. I've heard of the Out of Sync Child book from another friend, I'll have to check that out.

I think (from what I've read so far) that he definitely has signs of both sensory seeking and avoiding.

I got a list from his ped this morning of OTs she recommends in town. I need to call them all to see if they take our insurance and how early they can see him.

Thanks again for all of your advice!