Thank you so much for all your help. I will check into those book recommendations and steer clear of the WPPSI!
I'd like to get her into the DYS sooner rather than later (if she qualifies) because I am so confused about what to do in terms of school. Our district has a pull-out gifted program once a week, but I don't think it's going to be enough, so I am wondering about skipping grades. We have thought about applying to a private school that seems to accelerate kids in some areas, but I haven't talked to them about her scores, abilities, personality, etc., to see if she would be a good fit. It costs a lot and I want to make sure that it would be worth the sacrifice to our family. It's so hard to know what the right thing is.