She sounds like a very diligent perfectionist, imo.

There are many parents on this very site dealing with gifted kids with slow processing speed etc. We do not impune the intelligence of those kids. Why should we do so with hers?

Based on the description in this article, I would expect this hard working honor roll student to continue to work hard and make good grades in college. She will go to class. She will go to office hours (!). She will probably be at home studying nights and weekends while her classmates are out partying, drinking, playing video games, whatever. And will probably get better grades than most of them.

To suggest she has any less right to be there than they do by virtue of being a hard worker who is dedicated to learning is just plain ridiculous.