We have two different issues here: the OP's concern about her son's teaching, and what to do with kids who hate writing. Since the subject line does not mention writing, and in the light of the new forum rule asking us not to cause thread drift, I'm going to start a new thread on what do do with children who had writing, and leave this one for advice specific to the OP (which I can't offer, I'm afraid).
ETA here's the writing thread:
http://giftedissues.davidsongifted.org/BB/ubbthreads.php/topics/110556.html#Post110556
