Wow. My thoughts are with you. I thought skipping a grade was going to melt my mind. What I remember about my childhood is mostly my family and friends. But the unanswered part is - is that due to a dull educational experience or is that just what kids cherish.

I must say, I don't think there is anything wrong with factoring the impact boarding school would have on the whole family. Your feelings should at least make the list without apologies. just imho.