My 9-year old is EG. Since finding out this information, Ive found myself questioning my own parenting. It is almost as if Im intimidated by her. Prior to this, Ive been incredibly confident in my parenting as my daughter has been highly cooperative and weve had an excellent relationship. But recently, perhaps because she now a tween, shes more difficult and easily gets annoyed at me. Im smart myself (I have a PhD and am a professor), but she is smarter than I am and I think she knows it. I worry that shes manipulating me (shes highly intuitive) at 9....I certainly manipulated my parents but I was older.

Has anyone had similar experiences or worries?