Grinty, thank you so much for sharing this. The best part for me is that there are suggestions on how to handle and prevent melt downs. It's funny I've watched my husband doing all that is suggested, and the way I was viewing it is that he was catering to the girls. I'm more a no nonsense type of person, so my way of dealing with meltdowns was to just let them happened. But they are just so extreme so that really wasn't working. Anyway, this gives me a better understanding of what going on with them.