A sweet story about empathy - 05/13/16 10:51 PM
DS13 has had such a rough couple of years in middle school, I thought it would be nice to share something positive, and maybe hear some similar stories, if anyone wants to contribute:
He talked last night, at some length, about a classmate who he "wants to dislike" because the boy is homophobic and makes negative comments about LGBT students. DS said that he finds it impossible to judge this kid negatively, because he's clearly just responding to his home environment. And that the boy is a really nice person, with many positive traits, and so DS likes him despite his "politics."
I love how complex and accepting his thinking is. He applies the same principles to anyone with whom he has conflict. He is able to understand the complexities that underlie difficult human dynamics.
He's also autistic. I think it's a testament to debunking the ASD empathy myth.
Please add on, if you have any special 2E stories to share. Sometimes this whole "journey" seems so negative on the front-end.
He talked last night, at some length, about a classmate who he "wants to dislike" because the boy is homophobic and makes negative comments about LGBT students. DS said that he finds it impossible to judge this kid negatively, because he's clearly just responding to his home environment. And that the boy is a really nice person, with many positive traits, and so DS likes him despite his "politics."
I love how complex and accepting his thinking is. He applies the same principles to anyone with whom he has conflict. He is able to understand the complexities that underlie difficult human dynamics.
He's also autistic. I think it's a testament to debunking the ASD empathy myth.
Please add on, if you have any special 2E stories to share. Sometimes this whole "journey" seems so negative on the front-end.