I have not been here a lot recently how are all the kids doing now?

Sorry for the rumbling message. Overall we are great. I still don't know if we should be more involved with her learning or still let her do her own thing, I have been thinking I should read bit about unschooling so if you have book suggesting please post them

I'm glad to hear you're doing so well. You can find a great list of unschooling resources, including books, here.