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Posted By: Isa Update on DD - 03/21/09 09:41 PM
Things are going far better smile

At the school they are finally going to compact and enrich maths curriculum. She has to do a minimum of the basic stuff though before she is allowed the more interesting problems. This is just a few sums but at the beginning she took hours to make two sums. I practiced with her a little and was shocked by her unability to make then in her head. She just insisted that she had to use the abacus like in the school and spent more time trying to figure out how to use so that the teacher would be pleased if she she could see her. Fortunately I could convince DD to stop using the abacus or her fingers and now she is regaining her ability to do mental calculations.
I as well got access to rainforest maths recently and I am shamelessly 'hothuising' her. Well, she does not need to be pushed on that one hehehe.

The reading has also improved a lot. She still needs to spell many words but there is a world of difference of she could (not) read a month ago to now.

And the school staff (Mrs Teacher and Mrs Support Teacher) finally have been convinced that DD really needs a higher tempo when learning. This was thanks to a special committee of experts who give advice to the schools on difficult cases.

The barrier that still exist for DD are her visual and hearing problems and the fact that since at home we do not speak any Dutch her vocabulary is behind her classmates. For the last one we are now looking for a private teacher to teach her (and me if I can find a baby-sitter) more vocabulary.

While DD is still not enthusiast about school she is much more relax and willing to go.

Now, the next step is to get DD to improve the reading (easy-ish)... and to convince the school next year to compress two years in one (less easy yet).

Voila the good news smile
Posted By: Kriston Re: Update on DD - 03/22/09 02:51 AM
Yay! It sounds like she's really improving. Good! laugh
Posted By: BWBShari Re: Update on DD - 03/22/09 03:06 AM
Anytime a school agrees to change, it's success!! Good for you!
Posted By: Grinity Re: Update on DD - 03/25/09 10:25 AM
so glad to hear it
Posted By: st pauli girl Re: Update on DD - 03/25/09 12:56 PM
Isa - that is wondeful news! And from no reading to great improvement in one month is amazing. i'm so glad you figured out the vision/hearing troubles. And finally the school will listen. I hope things continue to go well!
Posted By: JJsMom Re: Update on DD - 03/25/09 01:29 PM
so good to hear another hurdle has been jumped!
Posted By: Isa Re: Update on DD - 03/25/09 08:54 PM
Yep, thanks a lot for the answers smile

DD has still to improve her reading but she is getting there smile

It seems that I was putting the standard bar a little bit too high. She is expected to read at home for about 10 minutes or two-three pages.... I make her read 7 pages, which can take up to 30 minutes! Well, I do not force her, if she is really tired she can stop earlier, but that was really my aim. ehem...

I am looking for a private Dutch teacher who can give more vocabulary. Playing with other kids does not help (for improving vocabulary, for social aspect of course it does) because the active vocabulary of her class mates is not larger than the passive one of DD.

Anyway, thanks for the support smile

I do not have many IRL people who really understand all these complications with the school.
Posted By: Grinity Re: Update on DD - 03/26/09 10:16 AM
Originally Posted by Isa
It seems that I was putting the standard bar a little bit too high.

I remember those days! I couldn't understand why DS didn't enjoy Monopoly at age 3, one of my brothers did, so why didn't he....

It takes a bit of trial and error to get this just right...
Smiles,
Grinity
Posted By: Isa Re: Update on DD - 03/28/09 12:54 PM
And now she is starting to read in Spanish smile

One sentence per day, mind you, but still...

After Dutch and Spanish she says she wants to learn to read English.
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