There HAS to be a counselor in this country that understands profoundly gifted teen boys. How do I find that perfect person?? I am looking for professional help guiding my sons through existential depression issues that come and go, through figuring out how to handle their intensities in real-life situations as the years go by. It could all be through skype/email, so geographic location doesn't matter. I appreciate any leads or suggestions anyone has for finding help. My 15-year-old, especially, is struggling sporadically with depression to the point that he shuts down and scares the school administrators. It is only happening once every couple of months, but he deserves help...

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Hoagies Gifted Education Page is often a good starting point:
Psychologists, Professionals

The SENG website (Supporting Emotional Needs of the Gifted) is also a good resource. You may be interested in this article: Tips for Selecting the Right Counselor or Therapist For Your Gifted Child, by James T. Webb, Sept 14, 2011

Ha ha. I've wondered this a lot the last few years. Hoagies doesn't list anyone near me (skype/email wouldn't be a good fit for us right now). And lots of psychologists and neuropsychs have *told* me that they have lots of experience with gifted children, only to see test results from ds and go slack-jawed telling me they've never *seen* scores that high... but I'm online and I've done enough research to know that these scores aren't that amazing (not bashing my kid - I love him and he has great strengths!! - just being honest that he's pretty far from qualifying for dys, for example). So when someone starts foaming at the mouth because his scores are the best they've ever seen, I have to wonder how much experience they really have with gifted kids... We're on our sixth psych/neuropsych so far, and I *think* she's a good fit, and her areas of research include giftedness, but we've had a few doozies in the past that just left me scratching my head...

Shea - if you find anyone, will you pass the info along? I have a similar kid - doing well at the moment, but I do think understanding giftedness would be helpful when he does hit another existential crisis. We've had a similar call into the principals office to talk about depression... :-(