Isa,
dud! you have her write a letter and you read it before you give it to dd to make sure it's appropriate. Get moving on this. I bet you anything that if you wrote the letter telling the truth, dd would do her eye excersizes. You don't have to say a word, these kids can read us like books. Just assume dd can read your mind.

As for DH, can you come home on weekends?
Trinity

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