Thank you so much for your post, Polarbear. It really is heartening to hear your son was/is so similar and got through it all okay and doing well
I am going to really think on what's in your post and see what I use and come up with to help DS. I may be back with questions on it
As for Panther, I don't *think* it is available for lap top but look at the link I posted above and look around - it may be or they may planning to make it available. It would make sense for it to be.
By the way, I recorded the meeting. I finally got up enough guts to say "I hope you don't mind, but I am going to record this ..." I am so happy I did. I used Irecorder on my Iphone. It was very clear and picked up all of the conversation and it was just so helpful to go back later and listen to it, come up with follow up questions and just hear how *I* did in the meeting. Also, I do think it made a difference in how people spoke. I don't think I heard even one offensive statement. I usually hear at least a few of them in any meeting. Not sure if it were due to recording it or not. I HIGHLY recommend recording the meeting - it's so nice to really focus on the disucssion and know you can take notes later!