I must say, this is one of the more interesting and unique threads I've read on this forum. Although I haven't needed to directly deal with it in our GT children, I can absolutely see how it would not just develop but turn into a full blown explosion that kids see as a game and one that they can win on a regular basis.
I've been very blessed with my boys in this regard. They've both grown to late teen age with the mindset that trust is paramount. This thread forced me to think about WHY that came about. The only answers I could come up with are that we've often talked about how trust, respect, and integrity are some of the most difficult things to earn in other's eyes, the easiest thing to lose, and some of the most difficult to regain / repair. As a parent, I've always put emphasis on that I want my boys to tell me truth even if it hurts as then I'll always know to back them strongly knowing the truth. If they show me that they sometimes don't tell the truth, it's difficult for me to put my full backing behind them.
We like to think when things / circumstances / habits turn out well that it's because of some influence we had. I wish I could say that's the case with my boys, however, I could just as easily see "The game" that has been described in this thread developing as well, almost completely out of my control. There certainly can be a threat when people know that they're smarter than 99% of those around them. Power can corrupt, knowledge is power. As is often said, with power needs to come responsibility and perhaps that's the biggest message we need to relate to these very special and blessed children, indeed they have power, be careful and responsible with how you use it.
Last edited by Old Dad; 11/06/13 07:11 AM.