Thanks Grinity and HK.

Grinity - I am a master at self-blame, so maybe I shouldn't read this book! Even the short "check lists" on her website started worrying me . . . does your child have a perfectionist parent (yes, me), was your child given too much attention in the first years (yes, from me), etc, etc.

I am looking more for what TO do.

I have the "Transforming the Difficult Child Workbook" (which has been probably the most helpful parenting book I've read yet, and even DH read large parts of it).

I know that a bad school fit and probably some 2E are the biggest issues. He will have complete neuropsych. testing at the end of the month, so I'm hoping the 2E becomes clearer.

For school I really don't have a good solution. I asked DS what he would like to learn at school. He said: biology, law and creative writing. Doesn't sound like grade 6.