We want our kids to be challenged and get a good education, of course. But Ivy or top 10 University or top 10 LAC are not the only way to do that.
Agreed. JaneSmith mentions the situation at a "mediocre" university, but there are more than 30 colleges in this country that aren't mediocre. Motivated students who seek out challenge will find great opportunities at a wide range of schools including many schools that are not "big name" schools. Gifted students can seek out: study abroad, double majors, graduate courses while in undergrad, undergraduate research, internships, etc. There are many options for motivated students to make the most of their education. And, there is no guarantee that a student who isn't motivated will get a great education even at a top school.
