For college, for a while she had been considering staying home a year and attending the local community college. She's lately moving away from that and thinking she would rather start at a 4-year college. Her college of choice is very small and intimate and meets her needs for a sense of religious community. I think she is feeling rather isolated now with the homeschooling, and the 4-year college would probably give her a greater sense of community and support than the community college.
I sure appreciate you comments!
If you have a 4 year college with a great sense of community, that is small and intimate and fits with your religious views, AND provides supervision to the level commonly associated with boarding schools rather than non-religious affiliated Libral Arts Colleges....then I think that particular college might make tremendous sense. Another avenue to explore is any religious associated boardign schools that might have classes that would be a good fit. The problem with 'life after age 14' is that grades 'count' in a way that can be problematic for kids with ADD, and a few 'extra' years of maturity can be very very helpful, as long as their needs are being met while you wait.
Best Wishes whatever you decide!!!
Grinity