onthegomom,

Has your FC sent a letter to your dc's school/teachers to introduce themselves?

Here is a different take on advocacy and educational planning that might help you:
http://www.malonefamilyfoundation.org/educating_plan.html

We are just in holding mode until we can find out who dd's teacher is going to be next year before we start this all over. Actually we had a written plan for the upcoming year in place with dd's school in April, but then dd did even better on end of year exams than expected. And one of the 3rd grade teachers suddenly quit after school was over. No point advocating, until they hire a new teacher...
Chrys

Warning: sleep deprived