Thanks so much for your reply! .. just talking abt it helps immensely when it all gets too much! a questionaire is perfect ! he makes everything sooo complicated normally so he would really be into that! Yes, one on one attention is definitely good, problem is we have 2 other children who are 6 and 4 (hes 8) ... so this sometimes is hard. He then in turn winds up the other 2 and it becomes extremely hard!
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