Occupational therapy for sensory integration disorder help so much for my DS9! My insurance covered it, my pediatrician was "will" to try it..
Read "out of sync" child, which doesn't paint the picture that accuratly for highly gifted kids, but if it's close enough, you might look into it. To this day, DS9 likes to be rolled up in a blanket.
You don't have to buy into the diagnosis to be helped by the treatment.
My 2 cents - ((smiles))

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