The whole introvert/extrovert thing is about the energy. Most people find me very outgoing, never met a stranger, will make anyone feel comfortable but I am a major introvert. I leave social situations or work totally wiped out. I must occasionally even take time away from my son to recharge. By appearance I am gregarious outwardly and completly shy inward. I have done all the different scales and assessments and they all say the same introvert who is emotional.