Thank you for the suggestions. He is in school, and to be honest the in-school things haven't bothered us - as we know he 'knows' the material - so when he only gets 70% completed on those timed facts, we're ok with it - as we've learned through testing about his perfectionism over the processing speed. Yes, his average processing speed did show up on testing - it was way out of line (100) in comparison with all the other tests.
This really hit home yesterday as he took the SCAT for CTY and only completed 72% of the tests - which is the normal amount for him on any timed test. NOW that will be held against him. I know he can take it over again, but I'm afraid he'll come out disappointed again that he didn't finish it. He's upset now, and sees himself as a failure / a stupid kid / etc...
At this point I'm at a loss ... Not sure what to do.
