I just got acceptance from the DI for my daughter. I am not sure how to handle my son. He is also very high. However, we have not had him tested to see if he also qualifies. Two reasons: we have to pay for testing out of pocket and it is expensive; if he isn't high enough we will have to explain. There is no question he is high. He skipped a grade in math no problem. But I'm worried about comparisons. Any advice?