She comes across as very bossy, but to her she just wants people to do it the right way. Her way, of course.
This is my DD7! She is very introverted so she could care less about being with the group if they are not doing what she wants.
I am no longer concerned about her lack of popularity because, she finally has a best friend.
It took many, many, playdates before my DD actually let her guard down to except a close friend.
Her BF is a people pleaser who struggles with learning. They are complete opposites and yet its a perfect fit!
I wish the same for all if your DCs
