Interesting question. We have an apt tomorrow with his ped to figure out what we should do. I'm not going to be comfortable with her diagnosing him with ADHD herself (though we love her and think she's a great dr) but will want a referral to see a dev ped or someone else.

With my DS there are also some possible concerns about something else so I am going to push to have a full eval done if possible to rule out anything on the autism spectrum (though I think most of it may be gifted related so if we can't get an eval done we'll pay for testing ourselves to figure out where we're at)