I wanted to give a quick update on DDs self advocacy (not sure if that is the right word). She is 11 and went to her guidance counselor in September to ask for a skip in math. At first she got the "it's early in the year, let's see later" from her teacher and the counselor agreed. The she went to talk again stating that she wants a more fast paced learning environment (her words, not mine). She was granted a trial in Algebra and the trial went well. After the holiday break she joined the class full time and is doing well!!
She is so proud of herself for advocating her own learning needs and the school really took her seriously. I hope that maybe other students middle and high school age might find this helpful when considering how to approach their school. I have not talked to anyone in her school about this and I think it took the "pushy parent" appearance out of the equation. I did send a thank you to appropriate people after the transition was successful.
Jen
