Originally Posted by Dottie
Originally Posted by TeriT
On the whole I think he is better off where he is.
Focus on the bold Teri!!! Focus on the bold, wink . DS isn't terribly "sportsy", but he does enjoy the things he does, and it has varying degrees of importance over the years (to him). I'm not sure he's "outstanding", but I still could have written your sentiment above at many points along the way. These decisions do require a "well rounded" look, and should not be made lightly. (That said though, we really do need to make the best decisions we can at the time, and then look forward, rather than backward!!!)

I think that is all we can do with these kids Dottie, there is never going to be a perfect situation for them. I asked my son who has inventive leanings to come up with a "what if" machine where you can enter all the parameters and come up with an answer. He hasn't quite managed it yet though, but if he does I am sure he will do a roaring trade!