I wonder if he might like some cooperative games once in a while, onthegomom? We have really enjoyed the games from Family Pastimes--and I expect that there are other vendors out there, too--but we find it fun to play something where there is a common goal, and everyone has to work together to reach that goal. It takes the whole win/loss aspect out of it, and returns it to sheer play. Just an idea, anyway...

peace
minnie