I agree completely the information being supplied is sketchy to say the least and the easy way seems to blame me and DH for the problems. My concern is also not being able to monitor him and talk him through instances, behavioural ups and downs. They want me to back off because they believe they know what they are doing and to a certain degree we as parents are part of the problem, but have readily admitted they have no idea as to the exact reason he is all of a sudden acting out as they put it and that they do not have the magical answer. I would not send my child to a hearing specialist for a child that was visually impaired. They want me to trust them when they have admitted they have little understanding of what is going on. Ironically after speaking with the psych. this week prior to the meeting they advised that by avoiding being the pushy parent DS7 may in fact be crying out for further intervention from us as parents to provide some more stimulation.
