Very interesting...

I have been blamed as well to spoil DD ... and to top it I am still breastfeeding her !!

I have been asked by her teacher as well to try to get her used to be alone at home, not to give her so much atention...

Lorel: DD 'kill' as well her best imaginary friend LOL, but she resucitated once. She does not talk about her anymore so I asked her and she told me she was like P*** (real friend): they do not want to play with me anymore. The sad thing, it is true for the real friend, even though I have not told her.

Trinity: DD wants to play as well with only one child. At the day-care she had a friend and become really jealous if someone else wanted to play with her friend.
Now in the school she wants to interact with only one girl at a time.
She tries as well to monopolise the teacher's atention, or the adult's that are around actually.
And I was 'old' as well when I had her LOL! (37).

Lori: your music groups looks great! I wish DD had some activity like this. I do not think that DD has any true peer. I definitively have to work on that.

And she does have visual problems, I wonder if there is a pattern here ...

Anyway, I wish you good luck with your ped's appointment.

Thanks a lot for the answers!