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Here's an interesting article that might help:
http://www.educationaloptions.com/resources/resources_rufs_tips.php

My hunch is that if your DD were a boy, the environment would have more slack for her 'being the way that she is' but since many many girls are compliant, she is getting even more grief for her 'rebel' stance.