Hi Pamela,
Our boy, currently 7, showed similar characteristics as your little girl. We had him tested and he was found to be gifted. The "What Next" can be challenging and is highly dependent on your location. The Davidson website is great and has helped us a lot. Also try to find families in your area facing the same challenges. This helped my wife and me a great deal. We had great success with Montesorri as the pre-school option. We also turned both our kids onto the violin which really helps them channel that creativity and brainpower.
Also, try the following website -
http://www.hoagiesgifted.org/ Hoagies is another great resource.
Finally, try to enjoy the process. Although it can be stressful at times, it is truly amazing and opens up a whole new world to you and your husband.
Hope this helps.
M
