Hi, my ds6 just had his tonsils and adenoids removed. It's been about a month and so far, (fingers crossed), the T&A seems to be having a positive impact on him. (His issue was not sleep apnea but an autoimmune response to chronic strep.)

He also had cyclical behavioral problems that would get better, worse, better, worse over the course of the year for no discernible reason (behavior plans, goal charts etc. had no impact)

Anyway good luck finding a solution. T&A has helped a lot of kids.