[quote=kickball] Or maybe I feel mostly guilty about being tired of "thinking" this to death but not doing enough about it to feel like we are doing our best by them.

That sums it up exactly, but I feel that way the whole year long. I chalk it up to inertia caused by having too many options for the kiddos and not enough guidance.

Heck, I am in the last quarter of my own college school year and have those blues....