I apologize if I ramble a bit as I try to explain my situation.

Our 8 year old son was recently diagnosed as being under the Autism Spectrum Disorder/Asperger's umbrella. He has sensitivities with clothing and with touch at times. In approximately 90% of the photos I take of him he is looking off to the side. He has difficulty with change and he is quick to become angry. He had little to no interest in reading when he was little but just picked it up in K. and quickly began reading into a 2nd and 3rd grade level. We have a very difficult time getting him to complete his homework depending on the particular assignment given. He is reduced to tears and tantrums sometimes. He adopts an "I can't do it" attitude.

When sharing that diagnosis with teachers, etc., they are all surprised. Now the gifted specialist at his school is suggesting he is "just" gifted with OE's (I'm still learning the dialogue).

I have been given lists of websites to learn from but am completely overwhelmed. I guess I am just looking for a little real-life information and experience. In the end I just want to know how I can best help him.