OMG!!!! my son had a lot of the same issues..... he does have ADHD though.... he doesn't walk.......... the kid bounces!!!!! We are artists (Both parents, poor kid :)) so we have taught him photography. He has learned how to make movies with photographs. It helps his self confidence, but the organization part, oh well, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree....lol

I don't know of an art therapist in your area unfortunately, but if you go to your local art council, they will. Also they will have kids classes and other cool stuff!

here is there web link:
http://www.artsfairfax.org/

anyone else can find there local here
http://www.nea.gov/

Hope this helps!