First question I'd ask myself: does he exhibit these same behaviors at home? (if not, then I'd say no)

Next: does he fit the DSM criteria? http://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/adhd/symptom.htm

The messy desk and bad handwriting just say "possible VSL" to me. See this article - maybe it'll help flesh things out - there's a chart http://www.visualspatial.org/Articles/george.pdf

that's my two cents
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p.s. no you're not bad parents!!!

Last edited by snowgirl; 03/14/09 01:02 PM.