Have you visited them yet? Spoken to parents whose kids attend and find out what they like about their kids' school?

In our house several of those options would be out of the running simply based on $$, but if $$ was no option I would definitely visit them all before making a decision.

Can you sit in on classes? Maybe you could being your dd and let her sit in on classes too? See which she prefers?

Good luck! Wish I had the same problem (those sound like some interesting school choices).