He sounds a lot like DD5 - they'd make a great pair! She's totally math obsessed and asks questions constantly. She counts everything. Sometimes it's a relief to drop her off at school.

And yes, I am also nervous about K for next year. She recently said that counting to 100 is babyish, and that's all the math that K does for the first part of the year at our school. Our K is mostly about reading, which she is now picking up speed on as she discovers patterns in words.

Why do you think he isn't highly gifted? I do not know DD5 will test, but nothing will surprise me with her.

Hopefully the parent's group can help you learn more about your how your school's program works and help you learn about your son. It's also nice to meet some more parents.