How frustrating MON!
I'm very glad that she is advocating for him to get help with his disabilities. Also very glad that you asked her 'point blank' about the GT programing. Perhaps that will help. You really do have to 'connect the dots' for some people. I have to learn to not assume that everyone knows and sees what I see. I used to think that if a person wasn't doing things that seemed obvious to me, that they had already considered and regected the idea. Not.

Love and More Love,
Grinity

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