Cathy A - If I hadn't seen your name on the post, I would have thought my husband wrote it - that's exactly what we do.

However, a friend of mine suggested that we ground her from books as a consequence for DD8 refusing to do her work at school (this was pre-GT identification). I did not like that idea, and thank goodness I didn't do it. It turns out that was the only time during the day she was challenged mentally.