Thank you Cookie and Indigo,

I have always wondered if he has Aspergers. He seems to share some traits while others are non existent or the polar opposite.

When the kids were younger, we would take them swimming often. Your comment reminded me that he did seem much more relaxed after swim time. I will try to coax him into some of the exercises you mentioned.

I want to be the greatest advocate for my son but I know I have been insensitive to his needs. He is wired very differently than I am and I struggle to find the right approach to help him. I know you have all been there before and I am so thankful that this forum exists.

Thank you again!