Thank you Platypus101 and Polarbear. I do think he sounds like your daughter Platypus101. Can be social when he is in the mood but definitely needs quiet retreats from school, large crowds or extended play time.

When I pick him up from school his brain needs to unwind. He really can't talk for 15-20 minuets or so. I can't ask him about his day. I give him that time to relax and decompress and wait for him to rejoin us.