fjzh - sounds like you're doing a good job figuring out what she needs!
With math, though, it's good to be aware that most standard math curricula is pretty painful for a gifted child. If she's avoiding challenge due to perfectionism, that's one thing, and there's some good advice above. But if she just finds it tedious and boring, well, she'd be in good company. (And if she's like many of our kids, she's doing both. They need to experience real challenge in math if they're going to learn how to cope with it). There's a ton of threads here on early math, with long lists of really fun books that teach cool concepts, written by people who love math and want to share that joy. You may find it much easier to work with your daughter on math that wasn't written by people who hate the stuff, and assume the student will too.
Some frequent recommendations include Beast Academy, Pappas (Penrose the Mathematical Cat), Martin Gardner, Enzensberger (Number Devil), Edward Zaccaro, the "Sir Cumference" series, Murderous Maths... not to mention a zillion Numberphile videos on Youtube. Questions from the Math Kangaroo contest can be lots of fun too: they require only grade-level skills but lots of out-of-the-box problem solving.
