DD9 is exhausted from trying to please her wide variety of friends at school recess. They won't play with each other, so they set up a schedule of when she will play with each of them and insist that she stick to it - and tell her they aren't "getting enough out of her" if she can't make it over to be with them on a given day. DD laments having so many friends and wishes she could get rid of a few. She wishes recess didn't exist and has started asking if she could attend another school because of this.

Any good advice on guiding a girl through these sort of friendship boundary issues? Remotely? Due to work, I can't volunteer on campus. None of this comes up during playdates because there is only one friend there at a time.

DH thinks this it's the school's responsibility to solve this problem. Does anyone think the school might a) try, and b) succeed?