Lepa is the one who originally recommended Quirky Child to me, and she is absolutely right- it is the only one I've read (and at this point in the last month I've read five or six since I suddenly realized that my son had zero friends) that provides the right kind of advice for scaffolding. It was also a huge eye opener.. after reading it it was like the fuzzy photo of what else could be going wrong for my kid suddenly came into focus and it gave me ideas on what else I could do.