DS9 was recently diagnosed with ADHD. We have tried two different meds; the first had horrible side effects, but the second seems to be much better.
Without meds, DS can function adequately (we homeschool). But it is difficult, and he has to work hard to focus on work he doesn't absolutely love. We have had to drop out of activities because he was unable to control his impulsiveness. He would get in trouble, frequently, which led to him to thinking he was a bad kid.
He is on meds just a few times a week: on those days when he has a class, or we have an academic-heavy day at home. It makes a huge difference in his ability to focus, to listen, and to not be distracting/annoying to other people. I believe his self-esteem has improved, because he doesn't have people (kids and adults) telling him he is being annoying all the time.
I still have mixed feelings about medication, but right now I think we are making the right decision. It's a tough one, though.
